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June 24, 2009

Perez Hilton's statement

Perez Hilton has put out a new statement about his little contretemps with Will.I.Am. from Black Eyed Peas. You can read the original story about Perez and his beating in the Perez Hilton assaulted video post.

Here's the beginning of Hilton's statement:

From the heart:

"Words can hurt. I know that very well, from both sides of the fence. The other night in Toronto, after feeling physically threatened by a verbally abusive Will.I.Am of the Black Eyed Peas, I chose the most hurtful word I know to hurl at him. I was in an out-of-the ordinary situaton and used a word that I would not utter under normal circumstances. My intention - however misguided it may have been - was to stand up for myself and tell this belligerent man that I had enough of his badgering and was not going to continue to let him berate and intimidate me. I wanted to hurt him with the word I chose, not anyone else. Unfortunately, the one who got hurt was me and, subsequently, a lot of other people.


Then the rest of it seems to descend into an orgy of self-justification.

Perez old bean, when you've just been punched for calling someone a "fucking faggott" the correct thing to do, the adult thing, is to say, "I'm terribly sorry, I can't imagine what came over me. Please do accept my apologies."

Then offer to shake hands and put it behind you. You might need a piece of steak for the black eye but that is still the way that grown ups are supposed to behave.

There are many ways to deal with disagreements, both good and bad, but violence is never the answer. Never. I now know that first-hand. It should not be condoned, promoted or accepted. No one "deserves" to be the victim of violence. No one "has it coming." NO ONE. And victims should not be ridiculed. I look forward to marching for equality in Washington, D.C. this October.

Not quite got it, have you?


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I'm with Perez on this one.

> Perez old bean, when you've just been punched for calling someone a "fucking faggott" the correct thing to do, the adult thing, is to say, "I'm terribly sorry, I can't imagine what came over me. Please do accept my apologies."

Er, no. Firstly, the way you've described the incident here is major understatement. Makes it sound like Perez hurled the insult and Will.I.Am lashed out and punched him. That's not what happened.

I was attacked from behind without warning and repeatedly punched in the head in a cold, disgusting and unnecessarily violent manner by Polo Molina, the road manager for the Black Eyed Peas, who I did not even speak with that evening.

That'll be part of the "orgy of self-justification".

In other words, Will.I.Am went away, planned retribution, and then had his people ambush Perez and give him a serious beating with no opportunity to defend himself. In return for receiving a word that he didn't like. The correct response to that is to have the bastard who attacked you arrested.

Seriously, Tim, what the hell is wrong with you? You know full well that the things you say on this blog annoy some people and some of them insult you in return. Margot Walstrom called you a "twat", for instance. If you were to have some guys go round to her house and kick the shit out of her for that, the correct thing for her to do, the adult thing, would be for her to apologise to you. Right?

As for apologising, Perez has apologised quite appropriately:

Specifically, there was an instance last year when actor Jesse Metcalfe was attacked outside of a Hollywood nightclub by a fellow entertainer. I did not condone the violence, but I did make light of that situation. I regret that. Sincerely.

Good for him.

Posted by: Squander Two | Jun 24, 2009 8:14:19 PM

if Perez (Mario) got any kind of beat down, then i think most people would admit that he had it coming

Posted by: Nomad | Jun 25, 2009 6:54:51 AM

Oh, well, that's OK, then. As long as lots of people find him annoying, it's ok to have him beaten in the head.

Posted by: Squander Two | Jun 25, 2009 6:54:48 PM

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